[Student Profile] Marty Flashner

Marty (R) with Dennis Prager

Originally hailing from Boston, Marty Flashner has a wife and three kids, a law degree, an MBA, and worked for almost thirty-three years with Ernst & Young, one of the largest professional service firms in the world, including running the firm’s tax practice in Connecticut for the last ten years. Yet, for all this career success, Marty now wants nothing more than to leave an impact in his local Jewish community.

He characterizes his early experiences with Judaism as “kind-of mixed.” In third-grade, he rebelled and stopped going to Hebrew school, thus ending his formal Jewish training in childhood. “It was actually much later in life that I really started reading the Chumash and studying it in a more rigorous way,” he said. This study drove a desire to become more involved in his Jewish community, so he began volunteering for a number of different Jewish charities, including his temple, the UJA Federation of Greenwich, CT, and even Continue reading

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[Alumni Guest Post] Coming Home

By Mira B. Shore [Summer '09 and '10, Year '12]

Mira at Pardes

It has been 7 months since I was in the Pardes Beit Midrash. 7 months since I walked the streets of Jerusalem, honoring my ancestors and being part of the Jewish story. 7 months since I actively and constantly questioned my religion, my spirituality, and my relationship with Hashem. 7 months since I watched the sun set over modern Jerusalem, personally fulfilling Biblical prophesies of our presence here forever. Walking down Rechov Rivka and in through the small and hidden front door of Pardes, I have never felt more like I am coming home.

Though the entrance code has changed and there are new faces, it feels like I never left. Exiting the familiar elevator and stepping into the narrow hall that is Pardes, I felt my heart swell and tears build up behind my eyes. I was welcomed with enthusiastic hugs and knowing glances from faculty, staff and students alike and I knew this was home.

After spending an academic year studying and living here (Sept 2011-May 2012), while it was difficult to leave, I was ready. I have since moved to NYC, Upper West Side, into a Jewish communal apartment and started graduate school at Columbia Teachers College to get my masters in Mental Health Counseling… finally pursuing my dream job of being a therapist. But gradually, as time went on, I could feel something was missing. I knew I missed Israel, Jerusalem and Pardes, but I also knew I’d be visiting in December-January with my family so I was not too worried.

Winter Break finally came and my family trip was beginning. My younger brother, Doron (18), is on his gap year program with Habonim Dror, living and volunteering in Israel. His being here gave my family and I an opportunity to travel and while we were coming to Israel eventually, we first had a week of touring Istanbul, Turkey. It was our first time there and it was very interesting, beautiful and inspiring. However, walking down the narrow streets, bargaining at outdoor markets and seeing some of the familiar walls built by Sulieman I, made me long for Israel in a different, deeper way.   Continue reading

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Finding Home (Again)

I’m back in New York

Which is kind of depressing.
I wish I wasn’t…
But I’m kind of stressing.
 
People dress too nice.
They make fun of my hair.
And when I wear my Moshiach flag
Well… people stare.
 
People here don’t know me.
Like my Pardes friends do.
They just see my kepah.
And say, “Hey, look! a Jew!”
 
I feel so small in Gallut.
I don’t want to stay.
I went off the derech!
And got pulled over today.
 
I said “Officer, I’m famous.”
He said, “I don’t know who you are.”
“Anti-semite” I responded.
“I’m a &*#%$!@ youtube star.”
 
He cuffed me
And I yelled, “Hey, man let go!”
“You have no control!
The Pisetzner says so.”
 
“Who?” he asked.
“Um… uh… he’s my… attorney.”
He responded, “This sounds like a crazy…
Jewish journey.”
 
“I myself am Jewish.
And I am going to choose
To let you off
Because I look out for fellow Jews.”
 
And at that the sky opened.
And angels started singing.
I heard a beautiful sound.
That turned out to be my cell phone ringing.
 
It was my good friend calling.
He said, “Wanna meet up for a drink?”
And I realized life is good here too…
I’m happy! I think…
 
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