My Modern Jewish Thoughts

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The most challenging course I am taking at Pardes is called “Critical Issues in Modern Jewish Thought.” There is no Hebrew involved. There is no Aramaic. I don’t even have to memorize birth and death dates of famous Jewish thinkers. What I do have to do, however, is think for myself. And it’s hard.

Cynthia Ozick, American-Jewish author and essayist

Cynthia Ozick, American-Jewish author and essayist

During each session, we alternate between group discussion and silent reading. We read philosophers such as A.J. Heschel, Mordechai Kaplan, Rav Soloveitchik, Chief Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks, and Cynthia Ozick. We covered topics such as the nature of God, the authorship of the Torah, the authority of Halahkah, and post-Holocaust theology. At the end of each unit, a few students volunteer to give a presentation: as a class, we generate a series of questions that the presenting students have to answer. Next week, I will be presenting on the topic of Feminism in Judaism. Today, while preparing to speak about this topic, I found myself spending many thoughts and minutes on each sentence; this is a tough issue that I care about greatly. It inspired a good deal of personal reflection, and Continue reading

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Bare

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This is the story of a girl. Many girls, actually. This story was born long ago, but a recent confluence of events has compelled me to record it today. The events are as follows (some are more like situations than events):

  • Event 1: I live with two boys. This is a situation.
  • Event 2: I learn with boys. This is also a situation, but significant event-like moments are reached during the sessions in which we sit across the table from each other and stare into each other’s – um, gemaras.
  • Event 3. Last week, I went to a Shabbat dinner with males and females.
  • Event 4: Last week, I went to a Shabbat lunch with only females.
  • Fact: The difference was astounding.
Arak: a Mediterranean  anise- flavored spirit

Arak: a Mediterranean
anise- flavored spirit

Friday night was fun. There was wine, Arak, deep-voiced singing, and heated debate about discovering the nature of God versus simply following His laws. There were, of course, the overt displays of “bro love,” and the subtle touching of men and women that revealed the underlying desire of every person in that room to get the hell married already.

Saturday lunch was fun. There was wine, a pearl necklace, musical chairs, and discussion about whether showing Continue reading

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Jews in funny hats and leather straps.

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The thing is, the apparatus of “traditional prayer” are sort of kinky.

The thing is, we’re ten men tying ourselves up in leather straps too early in the morning.

And we’re enshrouded in these huge sheets, and some people cover their heads and faces and it’s very anonymous even when I know who everyone is. Continue reading

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[PCJE Dvar Torah] A Bridge Between – by Avi Spodek

7Over these past few weeks I have been reading Steven R. Covey’s The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People as part of my coursework in Jewish educational leadership. Covey’s message and delivery are inspiring, and I highly recommend to this book to anyone and everyone. Its main premise is that leaders are most effective when they are, first and foremost, committed to and guided by principles of a universal and eternal character ethic. These principles enable them to prioritize their goals and forge authentic relationships with their colleagues in a way that cultivates their talents and spurs them toward greatness. Ostensibly intended for a business management audience, The Seven Habits has implications for every individual. Continue reading

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A Peek into the Black and White World

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I have Haredi cousins.

I did not know this until last Friday night, enjoying couch-conversation with one of said cousins before Shabbat dinner.

So many different types of Jews...

So many different types of Jews…

“So what do people in this neighborhood call themselves?” I asked, wondering (after seeing all the black hats and streimels) which sect of Ultra-Orthodoxy I had resigned myself to for Shabbat.

“Mostly Haredi,” she replied. “Some Hassidish and Chabad, but most people are Haredi.” She paused, then added, “I’m Haredi.”

What is “Haredi”? According to the Oxford University Press, Haredi is defined as: “a member of any of various Orthodox Jewish sects characterized by strict adherence to the traditional form of Jewish law and rejection of modern secular culture.” Therefore, I was very surprised to find out that my cousin works for Continue reading

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[Pardes from Jerusalem Podcast] Tazria-Metzora 5773: The Woman who has Given Birth

Pardes 1000xThis week, Neima Novetsky discusses Parashat Tazria-Metzora in “The Woman who has Given Birth.”

T-M ’73

Shabbat shalom!

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Freedom For Girls

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I would like to take this opportunity to wish girls and women everywhere a happy Passover – a Passover that is filled with freedom.

Freedom from “I’m not good enough” and “why doesn’t he* like me.” Freedom from wanting your life to be like a T-Swift love song, freedom from not “going for it” because you think you don’t deserve him. Freedom from settling for someone who shows a slight interest in you, because you don’t think anyone else will. Freedom from “why didn’t he text me back?!?!” Freedom from “what am I doing wrong?” and “how can I change myself to get him to like me.”

Freedom from comparing ourselves to others and assessing our own value based on what society thinks we should look, act, and think like. Freedom from “why can’t I look more like her.” Freedom from “I’m not cool if I don’t have that bag or those shoes.” Freedom from slavery to your makeup case and hair straightener. Freedom from wondering why you can never seem to look like the celebrities on magazine covers. Continue reading

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The Magic Touch

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Sometimes, a simple touch can make all the difference.

Hugging one of my best friends.

Hugging one of my best friends.

In the Jewish world, some girls don’t touch boys. Some girls touch some boys. Some girls touch only one boy, and everyone hugs their mother. As a part of this world, I have become especially attuned to the presence and absence of human touch.

In high school, I thought nothing of it. I hugged my friends (girls and guys) and high-fived with abandon. The one time I was asked to go out of my comfort zone was when playing Anne in The Diary of Anne Frank. Every knows about Anne and Peter, and my director had the specific idea that the kiss had to be long – very long. Continue reading

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“True Love – or – Shir HaShirim, pt. II”

When I think of my life, look back and reflect, I know she’s always been there. It was ALWAYS her, no matter what, through all the trials and despite our occasional differences, she will always be by my side, and I love her for it.

She will never diminish, she is as much a part of me as I am of her. She is magnificent and eternal, and I am truly blessed and grateful. I am hers, in body and soul. There is nothing I wouldn’t do for her. And all I ask in return is that she never change, that she remain majestic, amazing, beautiful.

She truly is flawless. Her every curve a work of art, the very image of perfection as I imagine it. She stands, proud and tall, and I am struck with amazement. Everything about her takes my breath away.

I observe and take in every detail, and the memories and associations flood me: Continue reading

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[Alumni Guest Post] Sara Brandes – A Purim D’var Torah (a spoken word piece)

Rosh Chodesh Adar is almost over, but Purim is coming soon!

A Provocative Purim Poem by
Sara Brandes (Year ’01, Fellows ’02, Elul ’05) 

ENJOY!

sbRabbi Sara Brandes lives in Los Angeles, CA, with her husband Hyim, and two children, Michal (5) and Gavi (2). She is West Coast Regional Director at Moving Traditions, and is working to build the Neshama Center, a spiritual mikvah and spa. She is a member of the inaugural cohort of PresenTense LA, a certified yoga instructor and the spiritual leader of the independent cooperative, Minyan Kol Chai. She blogs on Embodied Jewish spirituality at www.thejewishbody.org.


A Purim D’var Torah

A Spoken Word Piece

Can she be my hero?
I’ve always wanted to be a princess.
But, can she be my hero?
The winner of a beauty contest.
            Turn it and turn it and turn it.
Could it be that I could be she.
But, he could be me.
Who is he?
Evil he.
            Turn it and turn it and turn it.

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